EASY MAKING MONEY TOOLS
It only get worse, not better. How to get better when people refuse to improve on themselves. How to get better when the big 'kid' do not even listen.
It is just simple issues, and JUST SIMPLE things. But JUST simple things and yet it is SO DIFFICULT. When there is no small things where got big things? And everything just pile up and pile up......
Tell him, talk to him, no use. Refuse to listen. If he would listen, if he would co-operate, he would not leave the house in the first place. So he is the extra fortunate 'kid' at home who do not need to do housework, except to wash dishes..... and that is 'part-time' basis...
The children used to listen. Things were better it seems when they were younger. But why the 'big kid' can don't need to move while we need to move? The big kid just sit there, face the computer and I cannot do the same? The big kid talked like that why I cannot talk like that?? etc etc
Now, she asked,"why there are so many ants on the table?" Asked me. Yes, everybody comes to me. The big kid who do not even care about anything, not even know about children's exam date, not knowing about the children's school matters at all, would come to ask me 'why the child has a bruise on the leg' --- Did not ask the children, but ask me. 'Why the table like that?" Why this and why that. But nobody wants to do anything. Just refuse to do anything. MOTIONLESS. SO difficult to MOVE.
My mother said the same thing at home. I used to help out. But later I gave up. In less than a day, everything is messy again.... And this is the man who had brought the bitch home. The bitch said this is a pig's sty. Ha ha... The cock sleeps with the pig. The cock steals soap, the cock never bother about hygiene... but seem to care, act to care....... close the door, nobody see, who cares.......
And now why should the children bother so much -- since one person throw it on the floor, the second person throws and then the third person definitely don't need to put it in order. Simple instructions, but so hard to do....
HOW CAN I WORK? I said,"we switch role. You do what I do now and I go out to work. You want?" "I come back, dinner all ready, housework all done, don't need to bother about children's matter, sit down in front of TV or computer. You serve me. You want?"
What you think? I am still working at home, doing all the things at home -- the housework, looking after children, 'looking after' him.... He don't need to look at time. He don't need to ask the children about anything...
Give me money then. Everything needs money!
Nope, so smart.... Money all gone.
Man...........
The pleasure-seeking animal.......
And who takes the blame when things go wrong? Who would shoulder all responsibilities and who would solve all the problems ultimately?
It is just simple issues, and JUST SIMPLE things. But JUST simple things and yet it is SO DIFFICULT. When there is no small things where got big things? And everything just pile up and pile up......
Tell him, talk to him, no use. Refuse to listen. If he would listen, if he would co-operate, he would not leave the house in the first place. So he is the extra fortunate 'kid' at home who do not need to do housework, except to wash dishes..... and that is 'part-time' basis...
The children used to listen. Things were better it seems when they were younger. But why the 'big kid' can don't need to move while we need to move? The big kid just sit there, face the computer and I cannot do the same? The big kid talked like that why I cannot talk like that?? etc etc
Now, she asked,"why there are so many ants on the table?" Asked me. Yes, everybody comes to me. The big kid who do not even care about anything, not even know about children's exam date, not knowing about the children's school matters at all, would come to ask me 'why the child has a bruise on the leg' --- Did not ask the children, but ask me. 'Why the table like that?" Why this and why that. But nobody wants to do anything. Just refuse to do anything. MOTIONLESS. SO difficult to MOVE.
My mother said the same thing at home. I used to help out. But later I gave up. In less than a day, everything is messy again.... And this is the man who had brought the bitch home. The bitch said this is a pig's sty. Ha ha... The cock sleeps with the pig. The cock steals soap, the cock never bother about hygiene... but seem to care, act to care....... close the door, nobody see, who cares.......
And now why should the children bother so much -- since one person throw it on the floor, the second person throws and then the third person definitely don't need to put it in order. Simple instructions, but so hard to do....
HOW CAN I WORK? I said,"we switch role. You do what I do now and I go out to work. You want?" "I come back, dinner all ready, housework all done, don't need to bother about children's matter, sit down in front of TV or computer. You serve me. You want?"
What you think? I am still working at home, doing all the things at home -- the housework, looking after children, 'looking after' him.... He don't need to look at time. He don't need to ask the children about anything...
Give me money then. Everything needs money!
Nope, so smart.... Money all gone.
Man...........
The pleasure-seeking animal.......
And who takes the blame when things go wrong? Who would shoulder all responsibilities and who would solve all the problems ultimately?
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